Something the ex said just keeps buzzing around my head like an annoying little fly.
"I can see I didn't exactly make a bad choice."
What he said doesn't bother me, because I know I'm worth having and people have noticed. No, what bothers me is how obnoxious that statement was. Was it meant to hurt me? Was it meant to make me angry? Was it meant to annoy me as much as it does?
Either way, the statement makes me roll my eyes.
Sounds to me like he's missing you, but in serious denial. Either that, or he's just trying to be a d***. Or he could be upset that you're not in tears begging him to come back beacuse you just cant live without him. So if he can hurt you in some way, it will help him feel like more of a man.
Personally, I'd go with the "he's a d***," for the plain and simple fact that sounds exacly like something I would have done when I was a much younger, much less intelligent male. I was an egotistical womanizer who liked his breakups to be as memorable as they were devistating (to my everlasting shame.).
I don't want to cause a rift between my co workers and myself, but I have no idea what to do. I don't go to work to make friends, but I also dont want to be singled out!
First off, congrats on the turnaround with your boss! Second, I'm in a similar situation-where I turned in that guy for hitting my ankle, his entire department are out to get me (the phrase "Watch your back," has been used by other employees). I'd not worry about them in the long run-sounds to me like your average childish "teacher's pet" type stuff. You're doing a good job, keep it up!
Anyway, on to MY gaaaaaaaaaaaah:
Very minor-we're out of bread, and I have been craving a grilled ham and cheese with pickle... Now I have to go to the store if I want one. That's a quarter hour round trip, and I really do not feel like it (I feel like being lazy today). Ah well, if I want it, I'll have to go and get it.
Nothing good comes easy! GAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHH!
